Last year, my state of Washington enacted a new law: you can’t even hold your phone in your hand at red lights any more. Ever. You will be ticketed and fined if you are caught even holding your phone at a red light while sitting and waiting. Yes. For reals. The article is here.
I think this law is stupid.
End of blog post.
Okay… just kidding. There’s more. *wink*
I could go into all the reasons why I loathe this new law, why I think its stupid, etc. etc. What is dangerous about sitting completely stopped at a red light? Practically nothing that would involve a phone. How long are those red lights where you’re just sitting and waiting? Often super long. Would I ever practically get caught doing it if I kept my hand down below the window? Probably not.
Will so many of you comment with why the law isn’t stupid and will I still insist it’s stupid? Yep. *wink*
I could also give you all of my excuses: I get lost easily and have to constantly check gps. True. I never text or anything while actually moving. True. I am an efficient person who likes to use that dead time. True. The odds are 99.999999999% that nothing will ever ever happen if I hold my phone in my hand while stopped at a red light. Also true. The law was probably made because people are too stupid to pay attention to whether their car’s moving or not. Probably also true.
However, it’s a law. It can be repealed on the basis of idiocy, but until then, we’re stuck with it.
I keep wondering if my kids are whispering the same things to themselves behind my back.
“This is stupid.”
It probably feels super stupid to them when I tell them to turn the other way and not sneeze all over the food. I know they’ve got to think it’s stupid, because they continue to sneeze all over the food and look confused when I exclaim over it.
It probably feels stupid when I tell them to get dressed, make their beds, tidy up their rooms, and do their devotions before they go down to breakfast. Because time and time again, they choose to ignore this one also.
There are lots of things our authorities tell us to do that can seem overbearing, nonsensical, and stupid. However, we elect those authorities into office, and until laws get changed, the stuff still stands, stupid or not.
Yet there are just things that are tempting to ignore because they seem stupid. Using your phone at a red light isn’t in the Bible. It’s not even considered common sense nationwide. If I were to move back to Texas tomorrow, I could still hold my phone in my hand and make calls while I drive!
After the umpteenth time of trying to reiterate why we have a certain rule in our house, and having my kids give me that blank look that shows stuff isn’t computing, in a fit of frustration, I vowed never to use my phone at a red light again.
That wasn’t where you thought I was going with this, was it? *wink*
But really. I just realized that there are areas – giant areas – and sometimes teeny tiny areas – of unsubmission in my own heart. Things I want to do anyway because I truly think I know better – and because I’ve decided they’re stupid.
And because I was trying my very best to get through to my kids – “Whether you like it or not or care about it or not, God says to obey your mother, and so you should want to do it because you LOVE HIM, and obeying me shows love to Him. So because you love Him, just do your homework assignment the way I told you to. Okay?”
I realized that often times I show hypocrisy.
Now there are gigantic ways I do this, of course, and you might be saying, “Come now, RJ! What’s this about phones at red lights? Next you’re probably going to talk to us about watching illegally ripped movies on Youtube or fibbing that your vacuum cleaner stopped working and that’s why your carpet wasn’t clean! No one cares about this little stuff. We all do it. Talk to us about your big, deep sins. Let’s gawk at that.”
Oh, my friend, I usually do. I usually talk about the giant stuff on this blog. But not today. Today I want to talk to you about a stupid new little law on cell phones at red lights.
Because I think that the same heart attitude of, “I don’t care. Stupid people made this stupid law and I’m going to do what I want anyway” is the same attitude that my kids have towards completing their chores, and the same attitude I have towards all my biggest sins of pride, ungodly speech, impatience, selfishness, and fear.
“I know what I want, and so I’m going to do it anyway.”
When did Christians become people who tried to get away with as much as possible, instead of people striving for holiness?
And no, I’m not saying we do even the smallest and stupidest of laws so we can be “perfect” and harshly, fearfully lash out at those around us (or maybe even internally judge) like, “How DARE you commit the red-light-law?! God have MERCY on YOUR SOUL.”
Also, don’t do it because of those watching. “Kids, let me read you this blog article I just wrote.” *sniffs and straightens lapels* “You can get a good look at how righteous Mama is! Feel like wanting to be me?”
No, I’m saying, strive for holiness in all those little unsubmissive ways that are pricking your conscience right now – for no one other than the Lord Himself. Because you love Him.
You’re so in love with Him, that you’d lay down every pleasure, everything that you’re lazy about, everything that you just can’t do without, and everything asked of you just because He defines your happiness and reality. Because you want the cleanest conscience and the holiest living because you’re just in love with who He is – and simply because He says so. ❤
RJ Conte is a wife and homeschool mother of three little girls (aged 7 and under) by day, and an author by night. She has written a devotional for toddlers and preschool kids that is meatier than the typical fare they hear in Sunday school. ASTOUND delivers doctrine and big concepts for the very small, and teaches them to love God, in language they can understand!